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Thursday, 23 June 2011

ON ONE HAND I want...On the other hand....

We all experience these frustrating thoughts all the time
On one hand I want a promotion, on the other, I don't want more responsibilities
On one hand I want to do what seems the right job for me, on the other, I want to do what I really want to do
On one hand I want to work for my own, on the other, I want to stay for the current job's security


How many of these types of conflicts have come up for you before?


We all experience these internal conflicts. In some cases we are quick to dismiss these thoughts and 'resolve' the conflict by ignoring the needs of one part and allowing the other part of us to win. In other cases, we feel there is nothing we can do about it to solve it and become stuck, mulling over the two opposing things we want or pushing it out of mind. In either case, individuals, without realising will experience suppressed emotions and unmet desires from ignoring one or more parts of themselves.


You may go for the promotion with more responsibilities but end up feeling resentful of the job, or avoid the responsibilities forever wondering what the promotion would have been like for you.
You may continue doing the work you've been doing for the past 10 years as it's your area of 'expertise' yet continue feeling there is a more enjoyable calling, or you may choose to do something completely different but wonder if things would have been easier if you had stayed in your job.
You may work for yourself but wonder how far you would have gotten in in the current company, or you may stay in your current work, imagining how great things could have been working for your own.


Wouldn't you like to not have these doubts swimming in your head constantly and know you have made the right decision? 


Would you feel like two parts of you are pulling in opposite directions?


Or would you like to feel like the two parts of you working together to go in the same direction...
What CCC Travel does it to help you resolve these opposing emotions so you can feel at ease with yourself, feel integrated and whole, and come to terms with the right choice that accommodates opposing parts of you.


With proven effective NLP techniques, you can discover new things about you, start thinking about the difficult thoughts you keep pushing to the back of your mind that are preventing you from resolving the problems, and take the actions that will keep both parts of you content enough for you to move forward in your life.

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